So there's a new guy.
He's a lot better than the first one. The first one actually turned out to be pretending to be something he was not.
So I forgot about the first one, and focused on the second. And then I realized the second one had really been the one I'd needed all along. In fact, the second one had been the one I'd cared deeply about since the very beginning.
So now the second one has become my only one, and that's just fine with me.